With Valentine's Day just around the corner, it got me thinking about love and romance at work.
Well, I love medical drama shows. I always have - from A Country Practice when I was growing up to the likes of Greys Anatomy and The Practice nowadays. But, one thing that has always struck me is the way relationships develop on those shows.
Fully aware that TV is not reality (although I think some of my friends may disagree), I always laugh when I see doctors and nurses making out in the doctors' lounge or various other not-so-private areas within the hospital.
You see, never in my 16 years of nursing have I caught any member of staff in such an embrace. It's certainly not that I am oblivious to my surroundings. So, it just makes me wonder if such things really happen?
I have known staff members to date and even to marry. But, it has always been something that they have tried to keep away from the workplace. They certainly do not have a habit of flaunting it in the corridors or the cupboards. In fact, they oftem do everything possible to ensure that the powers that be are not aware at all. Of course, this is rarely successful as hospitals are large institutions and full of gossip.
Perhaps, my place of work is different to yours? Do romances and interludes occur out there in other hospitals? Should it be permitted for staff working together to date? Is it any business of the employer to know what we do in our spare time?
I personally think as long as you are professional at work and you can maintain that even if the relationship sours then there is not harm.
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Added on - 08 Feb 2010 04:46PM |
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Bells..... it is nice to hear that you and your husband can manage a work relationship so well in a small country town when I am sure there is even more gossip than a large city hospital. You are right though, it can become very schoolyard which adds a new dimension to work which is totally unnecessary. |
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Bells - says: Added on - 06 Feb 2010 01:47PM |
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Hi there |
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aleah.heath - says: Added on - 06 Feb 2010 01:51AM |
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mm i totally agree i think if there is romance in the workplace those ppl keep it to the bear minimum to make it obvious that their into each other though , |
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Added on - 05 Feb 2010 12:44AM |
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Romance in the workplace When I was a new grad I worked at Westmead Hospital and my first rotation was the Neurosurgical ward. I lived in the staff quarters with three other RNs but I was new to the area. I ended up with tonsillitis and I didn't have a GP there yet. I went into Parramatta to a medical centre. I saw a very young GP. When I signed the Medicare form he looked at me and said, " You live downstairs from me. Now I know where I've seen you before you work on the neurosurgical ward don't you? I'm a neuro registrar. I'm just moonlighting here a few shifts every couple of weeks." |