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 Subject :Re:It's all about GMRC.. 31 05 2010 14:44 
Bernhard
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I still have no idea what GMRC is, but don't (probably) care anyway. Some acronyms aren't worth the effort. I work with someone who I'm sure has the 'f' word come out every 2nd syllable, but no-one ever takes offence at him, as his conversations are hysterical. He could give Billy Connolly a run. It's all in the delivery! Swearing is meant to be fun, as much as it is reality. Some people are just permanently stuck so deeply in the reality, that only an enema may release them from the tension!
 Subject :Re:It's all about GMRC.. 30 05 2010 15:03 
Foxylass
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  I wasn't entirely sure what that acronym meant either.First time I've ever seen it. I wouldn't have actually associated it with nurses,nuns or devout Christians maybe! :)  At work there are few of us who don't swear now and then. We don't do it within the work area though just in the tea room. I guess because I work in paediatrics it is more important to be mindful of what you say. We have kids aged day of birth to 17yrs and it is usually the kids swearing at us. Not just the head injuries either which you tend to ignore as it is inhibition talking. 

 

  We see many low-socioeconomic families and to them words with more than one syllable or more than four letters aren't in their vocabulary. Sometimes you have just got to try and ignore it because the bigger issues are : getting them to wash their hands,wear shoes and stick around long enough for some education about their child's condition. Parents will occasionally lose it and swear at you but it is usually out of fear rather than anything personal. When the children swear at me I tell them that it is unacceptable and unless they apologize and find their manners then privileges like TV;DVDs and video games will be withheld until they comply. Given their degree of boredom and dependency on technology they immediately give in and start behaving themselves.

 

I'm not that much of prude that I am deeply offended at the occasional slip of the tongue at work. I'm more offended by people who seem to have a chip on their shoulder and start swearing at me for no reason or a lame reason. I do take great offence to children swearing. I've been crossing the road and had a five year old drop the F-bomb at me just to get a reaction. The problem is parents swear so often in front of their kids in some families. The child has no concept of the definition of the words but knows that it offends other people and is thrown back and forth during the arguments parents choose to allow them to witness. It just leads to a very small vocabulary for some people. It ends up being a an adverb or pronoun to them in every sentence.

 

It isn't appropriate in front of patients at all and should be reserved for private areas. As far as good manners goes you can lead a horse to water... Some nurses are simply rude or dismissive to everyone patients and staff. There are two RNs in my unit who everyone would like to take aside and give a good kick in the behind for being so obnoxious. It ruins an otherwise good day at work. We work either in isolation rooms or in a four bedded room. If one of these two RNs is on with you it is guaranteed to be uncomfortable. It's nice to be able to converse with colleagues throughout the day.But it is as if you are asking for something unreasonable when you ask one the two RNs (I've referred to) to double check a medication with you. We double check all medications in paeds so checking meds can happen hourly.

I've worked in public and private hospitals;denominational and non-denominational ;city and country hospitals and I've seen no difference in between any of those workplaces when it comes to swearing. People aren't stupid and know where it is and isn't appropriate to swear. I think the bigger problem is good manners toward patients and other staff.

 Subject :Re:It's all about GMRC.. 28 05 2010 22:10 
Bernhard
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This is Australia, and even the older residents swear. Most often the swearing isn't offensive, or taken as such, but part of the culture. Can't see why anyone woud take it as such. Depends on the words themselves, and the context they are used in. Colour is needed in some conversations!
 Subject :Re:It's all about GMRC.. 16 02 2010 08:29 
nurseuncut
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Thanks for sharing your thoughts and opinions about this topic. Yes that's true if you don't want to be affected dont listen to it.Somebody mentioned about saying these foul words as one way of destressing. Have anyone of you attended any stress management course or program saying swearing is one way of de-stressing? We spend almost the same hour in our workplace and our home, surely each and everyone of you dont want to work in unpleasant environment. If you dont swear, then you can tell this residents not to swear too, not in your unit at least. As manager, I think, a nurse is appointed not only because of his/her intellectual abilities to solve problems but also how they relate to their employees. I think that's why it's happening because nobody really say something about it and hearing somebody saying it gives a wrong implication that anybody can get away with it.I'm not a saint but I think if you are really really to the point of breaking into saying swear words..just paused and get your message across by saying Far Out instead of the other word.Thanks.
 Subject :Re:It's all about GMRC.. 16 02 2010 08:29 
nurseuncut
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This must be difficult for you ara-c2009. I think swearing is something that will always be with us and always has; sometimes people don't know how to be appropriate about swearing and that can be difficult. I generally just ignore it (especially with patients) because it isn't going to go away and I might miss something important if I worry about colourful expletives in someone's narrative. I don't think it necessarily means that someone has bad manners either. I'm no saint, but I do try to watch my tongue in company so I don't offend anyone; but I'm like you shoils, I've been caught out in my office letting off some steam over some frustration or other!Roll  Eyes
 Subject :Re:It's all about GMRC.. 16 02 2010 08:29 
nurseuncut
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Yes I have to agree with Illawarrior and Hihavaniceda. We too have those of us that sware ( particularly in aged care) and I would have to say it is probably more out of frustration and stress. It is NEVER at the resident nor in ears shot, but in the staff room anything goes and if it helps nurses de-stress and debrief then there is nothing wrong with it. If you are offended by it then don't listen or join in the conversation. I am afraid it is a losing battle for you and chances are you manager also swears. I am a manager and I sometimes slip and let out a few colourful words in my office when I am off loading and de-briefing with some staff. After all we are all human, and you know what?....... Even some of the residents swear.
 Subject :Re:It's all about GMRC.. 16 02 2010 08:29 
nurseuncut
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I find in my workplace we do swear a bit at times but always out of residents earshot.Usually if someone is going off we know they relly need to have a break .None of us is saints but we all accept that sometimes we get a bit stressedBig  Smile
 Subject :Re:It's all about GMRC.. 16 02 2010 08:29 
nurseuncut
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We are Aussie and we do swear a little but I found a little pic for you as a way of saying sorry .... do you like it ... do you want me to help you get it uploaded near your name?

 Subject :Re:It's all about GMRC.. 16 02 2010 08:29 
nurseuncut
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Just a little tongue in cheek.

Do you really not like any swear words? Do you believe that there is never a place for any of these words?
 Subject :Re:It's all about GMRC.. 16 02 2010 08:29 
nurseuncut
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GMRC -Good Manners and Right Conduct. Just ask the meaning of the word..no need to say bloody hell. Thanks.
 Subject :Re:It's all about GMRC.. 16 02 2010 08:28 
nurseuncut
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What is bl00dy hell is GMRCWink

We come from a rural town and some of our nurses do swear a little but it is always out of patients ear shot, and only amoungt ourselves .... I don't swear greatly, some do, I usually go and give them a hug and support as they often need it if they are usuing the big words.
 Subject :It's all about GMRC.. 16 02 2010 08:28 
nurseuncut
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What is your opinion about foul language,swearing from colleagues as an expression of their frustration,?anger, disappoinment in the workplace, not directly towards you at times but it's just their common outlet for stress. I, for one do not agree..but it seems to be that nobody is calling the attention of these people, I have tried but I guess the immediate superior should be the one reprimanding them that foul words are not acceptable but what if they are one of the immediate superior..what can we do..I thought of reporting them but I imagine it would be a one man battle because people who were affected will not talk because they are scared of being identify and be picked on by these people. What is your opinion about this?UnsureOh
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