Tess was not your typical New Grad RN when she started at age 55. But her energy and drive is to be admired and here she highlights all the positives and great experiences she’s had so far…
“You must be mad.”
“You’ve got to get off the ward or your body will fall apart.”
“At your age? Crikey, I’m retiring as soon as I can!”
“Why would you want to do that?”
And with these words of encouragement ringing in my ears I started my first week.
I’m three years in now but vividly remember my NewGrad year and, after the inevitable period of sheer terror, it was fantastic!
A chance to try three totally different areas of nursing and see where I fitted. The opportunity to learn, learn, learn. The ability to show myself just why I wasn’t mad, just why I can’t think of anything worse than preparing for retirement and just why I slogged away for those three years of the degree.
Nothing can really prepare you for that terrifying transition from responsibility-free student to responsibility-laden primary nurse caring for 6 patients. But equally nothing can prepare you for the fabulous high of knowing that you are delivering your top quality care, the high of mastering something really tricky, the high of receiving thanks from a grateful patient or their family. I love the autonomy and accompanying responsibility and thrive on becoming a better nurse every day.
As a mature aged New Grad, and now RN, I feel even more fortunate. Far from being a drawback my age is a positive bonus. Sure I get more tired, my back aches and it’s hard to leave work and then get home and have to look after a demanding family. But whilst at work, the benefits of life experience, of knowing how to get along with people, of understanding how the world works are invaluable. Patients trust me. My age enables me to inspire confidence in them. And my age ensures that I never become overconfident or complacent.
So am I mad? No!
Is my body falling apart? Maybe!
Am I looking forward to retirement? No way!
In fact, I’ve just been accepted on a Masters in Cancer and Haematology.
My only regret is that there isn’t enough time left to do all that I would have if I’d only started on this journey a little earlier.
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